I Want a Man to Give Me The Luxury My Father Couldn't Give to Me - Lady In Her 30s Says, Nigerians React

Posted by Thandiubani on Tue 01st Apr, 2025 - tori.ng

According to the lady in her 30s, she now wants a man to give her the luxury her father couldn't give her.

A Nigerian lady, Oma Jim has taken to Facebook to regret dating for love.

According to the lady in her 30s, she now wants a man to give her the luxury her father couldn't give her.

Oma took to her Facebook page and wrote:

"I'm in my 30s, I have stopped dating for love 😂

I dated for love in my 20s,

I wasted my time, gave my small money to man thinking if I build with him, he would love me...

Guess what? The same men that wasted my time are on Facebook marriage shaming me🤣

Dating for love broke me, mehn,

Dating for love didn't favor me at all.

I wouldn't advice my sisters or any young woman close to me to date for love.

It's okay to date for love... at least you're not my biological sister...😊

I'm a from a very poor family, I can't afford to date for love again.

I cant take that risk in my 30s.

I'm dating for a comfortable life, stability and to get my bills paid.

I want a man to give me the luxury my father couldn't give to me.

A man that would give me his business empire to manage.

You all can date for love...

This 30+ old hag has signed out🤣"

Reactions below:

Marvellous John

Your fellow gender bought a Benz worth over 25m from Influencing and tech work. A lady who understands that making big money is not gender base. But here you are, at 30+ waiting for a saviour to take you out from the poverty your parents couldn't redeem you from.

This too much Asaba movies don dey really affect most of these our women 🤣🤣

Your Japa Buddy

Only in Nigeria will you see men talk on 30+ women and talk about how she is undesirable. BS and more.

Talk about people BROKE and BROKEN MEN with stinky attitudes. Na them🤣

They scream of insecurities and low self esteem.

I met a lady on tiktok who got married at 37 and the husband is rich. They met on dating app.

It's always men without gold who hate gold diggers. Why are you scream when you have no gold?

Eze Deborah

I don’t know who told the men on this comment section that God is from their village?

When you set your own standards no one asked you anything and who are you tell a woman what her own standards should be ?

I choosed love over money 4yrs ago lolz it ended in tears this year 🤣🤣am healed but I no go try am again ,I will get both in one man

Chris Ikenna

Unfortunately most men with the money don't find 30+ vvomen desirable enough to commit to them. Especially if the lady in question doesn't meet up with desirable physical attributes. Most of them go for younger girls. The exception is that if the 30+ vvoman has other quality things to bring to the table other than sex.

That's not the case if we are talking about engaging in casual sex with 30+ plus vvomen, which most men wouldn't mind.

Na commitment be the koko.

Odenke-Odemonke Ibiang

A 40+ man wants me in my 30s to marry him for love. Like a grown up adult is waiting for me to take up his responsibilities. What my grandmother who didn't go to school wouldn't dare. I'm marrying for luxury or never.

Rahêênãh Haliru Muhammed

If I could turned back the hand of time, I'll definitely not date for love.

Agatha Ukamaka Okafor

And who said you can't get that luxury life you father didn't give you by yourself?

Must a man make you rich and give you that comfortable house you want?

Pray to have your own money

Then pray for a kind, industrious and family oriented man