Resist The Temptation To Use Your Kids As Weapon During Marital Crisis - Nigerians Tell AY As He Shows Off ‘Benefits’ After Marriage With Mabel Makun Crashed

Popular comedian and actor, AY Makun has been dragged online over the recent post he made about his daughter hours after confirming rumours of marital crisis with his wife and interior designer, Mabel.

In a statement via his Instagram page on Sunday, AY confirmed that his marriage has hit the rocks but will not be entertaining the public with personal issues about his family.

The comedian admitted that he has found himself doing some things that he isn’t proud of, and it is sad to watch his marriage and friendship of 20 years slip away.

In a new twist, the thespian took to his Instagram page to share a video collage of his beautiful 15-year-old daughter and captioned it, “Benefits…”

However, the post did not sit well with many Nigerians, as some warned AY against weaponising his children following the crash of his marriage to Mabel.

Some stated that his post reeks of pride and arrogance, while urging him to do better.

See reactions below;

favour_limiless wrote: “The temptation to use kids as weapons when a marriage crashes is usually very strong but resist this temptation as much as possible. The benefits of marriage are far beyond children, partnership, team work, companionship, etc sharing life with someone is a greatest privilege to have in this lifetime, your daughter has the right to her privacy and exposing her in this moment is rather not a very wise choice. Respect her privacy and her keep her out of this, she would prefer her parents together I’m sure, don’t weaponize your child terming her “benefits” the whole world knows she is, don’t just name it, a responsible man should stomach his pride in such a moment and refrain from any actions that will cause more lashing out and further exposing his family to public debate.”

aghogho_mena wrote: “Benefit” of the 20 years relationship. Your caption ricks of pride and ignorance. You benefited so every other thing can roast. Perhaps your ex wife is with the baby reason for you to post and daughter “benefit” Apparently you have shared the kids. Michelle is your gain and the baby is your ex wife’.. Do better you be Ose”

eghimonu wrote: “Benefits? What a selfish and immature caption.”

adeyinkadayo wrote: “This ins€nsitive post might just start the beginning of the so called mental trauma for this beautiful angel, thought the father said he was avoiding that to happen.”

cute_mjt wrote: “My respect for AY is enormous. However, this post isn’t necessary. ‘Benefit’? People are wise while many can read meanings. This post isn’t necessary…. Ofcourse we all know what you were referring to… If it’s all you benefitted from the 20years marriage then you never loved and valued your wife. This is outright disrespect. Marriage is beyond child benefit. It’s lifetime respect, value and oneness…. Your post is out of order sir or the timing is wrong…. You can do better…. May you all find reason to settle. Love and light”

twist_gender wrote: “U care about her mental health and u have that caption there sir?”

consistency wrote: “Uncle AY….papa when Dey care about he pikin metal health. I greet you boss”