A concerned chap asked Reddit for advice after looking through his girlfriend’s computer.
The anonymous lad admitted that he’d stumbled across some worrying search terms in the browser history.
Many urged the man to end the relationship, while others suggested that he confront the problem with a candid chat.
The 27-year-old wrote: “About 6 months ago I was at my girlfriends house. She told me about a news article she read and wanted to show me.
“She asked me to look at her Google Chrome history to find it as she'd seen it a few days ago.
“This was a mistake by her because I did scour her internet history and found a lot of strange Google searches about her not enjoying s*x, e.g. 'The thought of s*x disgusts me’.”
While this discovery did make the bloke feel self-conscious, he decided to smooth things over with his girlfriend.
After she assured him that she was suffering from low libido, they moved on from the awkward situation.
Sadly, a second pry into her search history unearthed even more problems.
The Redditor admitted: “This weekend, 6 months later, the same thing happened again.
“This time her search history was more distressing to me... 'Not attracted to boyfriend', 'S*xy coworker', ‘B******* disgusting', 'Am I falling out of love'.
"All manner of things that I found bad but all confined to a one evening Google-session.”
After he opened up about his predicament, commenters were encouraged to express their views.
Many urged the chap to call time on his two-year relationship, with one remarking: “Move on. There is literally no way you end up married, happy, and satisfied here.”
Another said: “I would say your wasting your time with her mate you could try and talk but I don't think it will do anything.”
A third added: “I’d just cut your losses here since who would even want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't willingly communicate their needs, doesn't think you're attractive or like having s*x with you, but finds other people attractive still?”
Others thought that the girlfriend had left her search history untouched in the hope of her partner finding the evidence.
One Reddit user theorised: “She wanted you to find these because she's too much of a coward to tell you.”
A second was in agreement, adding: “I get the impression she did this on purpose because she wants you to end the relationship because she is too much of a coward to do it herself.”
Even though the majority of Redditors thought that the bloke should dump his girlfriend, not everyone was in agreement.
A commenter reassured: “This isn’t cheating or abuse, not all hope is lost guys.
“Talk to her about this. Let her know you know and ask if there is anything she is missing from your relationship. Be HONEST. It will be a hard talk but it has to happen.”
Another agreed: “Please talk to her. I know most of the other comments are saying to flat out dump her, but it sounds to me like you want to at least work it out.”
Via Daily Star UK