Posted by Amarachi on Tue 18th Mar, 2025 - tori.ng
According to Deborah, her husband appreciates her and verbally acknowledges even small efforts and acts of service like making Akara for him.
A Nigerian woman, Deborah Ocheido, has spoken about the reason she prioritizes her husband's wellbeing and serves him with ''serious passion''.
According to Deborah, her husband appreciates her and verbally acknowledges even small efforts and acts of service like making Akara for him.
"I serve my husband with serious passion No scratch that I look for avenues to serve my husband with a serious passion. Why?????? This man has mastered the art of gratitude and saying thank you The most interesting part is he does this for the smallest of acts," she wrote.
I remember the first time I made him akara My husband got so emotional With every bite he took , he was beaming and blessing me. He blessed my mother that taught me how to make Akara He blessed my entire lineage (PS: The Akara probably hit different because he had not had it for over a year in Canada before I joined Him) On top Akara?
For me this was something I made in my parents house every other morning. Omo I made Akara for him for 1 month straight. See me smiling and washing beans. Every small thing “Debbie ma Pa mi nau” This food is too sweet “Ah baby you did laundry, oh God bless you my queen” “Chai Omo mi you look so stressed . Good bless you for taking care of me and my boy” “Ochanya take my phone and order something, You deserve it abeg,”
“Baby you wash toilet, Kai. Well done. This is why I keep telling my friends to marry an Idoma woman”
Everything praise praise praise And then I find myself looking for things to do because I wait for the light in his eyes and the adulations on his lips.''