Posted by Samuel on Thu 11th Jul, 2024 - tori.ng
He revealed that he got bothered after this discovery and has sought advice on what to do.
A Nigerian man has been left grappling with a serious dilemma after finding out that his serious girlfriend secretly presented a list of his name along with those of three other men to her pastor for marriage confirmation.
The man, whose identity remains undisclosed, revealed that he recently visited his girlfriend at her place to break his fast.
While she was outside to get him food and fruits with which to break his fast, he found a list in her Bible containing his name and that of three others.
He revealed that he got bothered after this discovery and has sought advice on what to do.
He wrote: “I fasted on Monday and on my way back from work, I stopped at my girlfriend’s place. Around 6pm, I told her to get me fruit and food to break my fast, and after she left, I picked her bible to do my prayer and | noticed a paper with my name and 3 other names written.
"She ticked another guy’s name and in same paper she wrote down what the man said about each one of us. Obviously, they were alla guess game. I was bothered because I am not a fan of jumping from pastors and again that she had these other two people she is talking with.
"I haven’t said anything till now and she has maintained same energy as before. How should I handle this because I really do love this lady.
"She loves me too and we practically know each other’s daily affairs except we don’t touch each other’s devices which was why didn’t know about the other guys.”
The post has caught some attention online. Below ae some of the reactions that followed.
Nnodim Chinyere commented: “You loves this lady this much,so what is keeping you?”
Joy Iso wrote: “I think you going to her place at that time and seeing that paper is God leading you to something. Just calm down and pray about it for clearer understanding”
Adesida Eunice opined: “She is seeking God’s face towards the best will, you should definitely do the same ( pray). That doesn’t mean she doesn’t love you and love should not be a yardstick for missing it maritally. Shalom”
Orisaleye Adeplenty Sunday said: “She is seeking God face. You too do it from your end”
Adaobi Emmanuel advised: “Permit me ask. Have you discussed marriage with her? Have you told her your intentions?
If you have and she is yet to give you an answer, remind her again. Maybe, that’s her own way of prayers too. You never can tell.
Most importantly, you know and understand this lady better than all of us here. Maintain a very close communication with her.
My humble suggestion.”