Posted by Samuel on Thu 21st Sep, 2023 - tori.ng
Solomon, known for his controversial takes on relationship, hit men with an understanding of what having a woman to call their own is.
Solomon Buchi, the popular relationship therapist, has spoken to men who misunderstand and have epileptic idea of getting married to a woman.
Solomon, known for his controversial takes on relationship, hit men with an understanding of what having a woman to call their own is.
He argued when a man proposes to a woman, he isn’t helping her, streasing it’s important to abandon the idea that women need marriage to fix their lives.
The subject of Buchi’s message is a common fallacy; the idea that a woman’s life can only be whole or fulfilled through marriage.
He advised that Nigerian men should cease watching too much nollywood where those kind of ideas originate from.
“Dear men,
“When you’re asking a woman to marry you, you’re not saving her.
“You’re not taking away her shame; there’s no shame there.
“You’re not doing her a favour.
“Stop sounding like she needs to marry you to get life fixed, and if she rejects you, she won’t suffer, neither would she regret it.
“You’re not the only great guy as you’ve made yourself believe.
“Reduce watching Nollywood too,” he said.