Posted by Samuel on Sat 17th Jun, 2023 - tori.ng
The screen diva emphasized that women must be forthright about their goals since there are situations when a man may not notice the clues a lady is giving out about her intentions.
Bayray McNwizu, the Nigerian actress, has talked about why it is play for women to make the first move in a relationship.
The actress shared her opinion of how women can make the first move in romantic relationships, encouraging them to show interest but not act desperate.
In an interview with Saturday Beats, she said, ”There are pros and cons when it comes to women ‘shooting their shots.’ If one does not want to waste one’s time, just find out what is working. It is always about knowing where to apply the gauge, knowing when to proceed, how fast to move and when to stop. These things are so important. If one likes somebody as a woman, know how to proceed and know how fast one can take action.
“Also, know when to stop because one cannot afford to look desperate. A woman needs to have a healthy self-concept about herself and know that she is a queen. If a woman wants to be in a man’s life, that woman has to bring a lot of value to the table. If the man cannot see that, then the woman should help him. If the man is interested, he will chase the woman. If he is not, then the both the man and the woman can settle for friendship. It’s even more valuable to have friendships that can blossom into other things as opposed to immediate romantic relationships.”
“Actors need to be more open to the idea of a management. Ninety percent of people are not open to that. Management comes with structure. In addition, the management too needs to go back to school to understand how Nigeria works, to know what will work in Nigeria and what will not work in Nigeria. The film industry needs to be more open to that because it helps to protect everybody’s interest.”