Posted by Amarachi on Wed 26th May, 2021 - tori.ng
According to the lady, her then-boyfriend was broke and she never realized it until she saw his payslip which made her end the relationship.
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A South African lady took to Twitter to open up on why she ended the relationsshipwith her boyfriend.
According to the lady, her then-boyfriend was broke and she never realized it until she saw his payslip.
She added that she tried to stay in the relationship but that she failed because she didn’t see herself staying with a man who is that broke.
Advising men to hid their pay slip, she said the reason why she never realized that the man was broke for that long was because she never asked him for a cent.
She Tweeted;
“There’s this guy i once dated two years, i saw his payslip, realized i could pay him his monthly salary 4 times a month. I tried to stay in the relationship but I failed, MEN HIDE YOUR PAYSLIPS.
The reason I didn’t realize he was broke for that long is because, I never asked him for a cent, i am a woman who does everything for herself financial side, like if i come to ur house, i want us to go out, i pay for it. I see a shortage in the house, i buy, that’s how the woman who raised me did most of the things.
I never saw my grandma going to grandpa and ask for money because electricity is running out. She’d just buy, when grandpa gives her money, she’ll take, but whatever is needed, if it is not enough, she adds.
There was never a time in the house where we came to see that grandma had a salary greater than that of grandpa. Finances never brought any difference between the two. That’s how i am.
The reason i left is not merely the amount on that payslip. But then, why would he just relax with that. I mean, no side hustle nothing! I have way too many goals and dreams to date someone who gets paid salary and feel it is enough”